Saying Goodbye

 This article appeared recently in the Washington Post.  It is a beautiful, vulnerable, and honest look at the emotional process of the transition.

Saying goodbye to my child, the youngster

By Michael Gerson, August 19, 2013

Eventually, the cosmologists assure us, our sun and all suns will consume their fuel, violently explode and then become cold and dark. Matter itself will evaporate into the void and the universe will become desolate for the rest of time.

This was the general drift of my thoughts as my wife and I dropped off my eldest son as a freshman at college. I put on my best face. But it is the worst thing that time has done to me so far. That moment at the dorm is implied at the kindergarten door, at the gates of summer camp, at every ritual of parting and independence. But it comes as surprising as a thief, taking what you value most.

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